har kise say jo humne wafa ki

har kise say jo humne wafa ki

bus yehi zendagi may khata ki

chahato ke hujum may tanhai

muje dosto ney ata ki

saz-a-dil yu hi nai mela humko

bhari kimat thi jo ada ki

jo hamara na hosaka aksar

unky liye bhi humne dua ki

Life's Challenges

Sometimes the world appears
To be spinning out of control.
Sometimes there seems to be no end
To the distressing news.

Sometimes it feels like troubles
Are being piled on top of troubles.
Sometimes it can look as if there
Could never be a way forward.

And yet, that way forward is always
As close as your next thought.
For no matter how difficult and discouraging
Life may have become, with each dawning moment,
A new world of positive possibilities opens up
to you. 

From the darkest depths of despair,
Hope does indeed grow and take flight.
Out of difficult situations, new strategies emerge
For creating real value and spreading life's goodness.

Remember that the future does not have to be
An extension of the past.
For you can act right now to create
That future out of the abundance of positive possibilities.

Life always has its challenges,
And those challenges are what enable you
To bring real value to life.
Whatever the circumstance,
Step boldly forward and
Choose to move the world positively ahead.

Apne Hue Paraye ZaMane Guzar Gaye

Apne Hue Paraye ZaMane Guzar Gaye, 

Dil Par Ye chot Khaye ZaMane Guzar Gaye, 

Wo Bhi Bichhad Ke Chain Se Soya Nahi Kabhi

HuMko Bhi Neend Aaye ZaMane Guzar Gaye, 

Fursat Agar Mile To Kabhi Mere Ghar Bhi Aa, 

Raste Ko Ghar Bane ZaMane Guzar Gaye, 

Sar Pe Meri Dhari Hai Tere GaM Ki Ghatraiyan, 

Aur Bojh Ye Uthaye ZaMane Guzar Gaye, 

Wo Jo Kisi Ke Pyaar Mein Kho Kar Hi Reh Gayi, 

HuMko Bhi Hosh Aaye ZaMane Guzar Gaye, 

Kitne Hi Dukh Hai Jo Kabhi Keh Nahi Saka, 

Is Dukh Ko Bhi Chhupaye ZaMane Guzar Gaye...

Be more concerned with your character than reputation,..because your character is what you really are,.. While your reputation is merely just what others think you are.

In life any relation is never planned,nor it happens 4 a reason,but.. whn relation z real, it becomes a plan 4 life & a reason for living...

I hate the way you make me feel

I hate the way you make me feel,
Meaningless, neglected and sad.
I hate the way you shove me aside
Thinkins :she just cant stay mad"

I hate the way you say nothings wrong
Just because you wanna get laid.
I hate the way you can sting my heart
to you Im a hooker that doesn't get paid.

I hate the way you make me cry
Mostly when you not around.
I hate the way you grab my ass
So, I stive to lose every pound.

There's a lot of things I hate about you
The list can go for miles.
But, it hurts too much to name the rest
But, you have my heart on the ground in two different piles.♥♥♥♥

by Danielle

We come to love not by finding a perfect person, but by learning to see an imperfect person perfectly

Why do things that make you happy in the beginning hurt so much in the end..?

it really hurts

Love
hurts when you break up with some one. Hurts even more when someone 
breaks up with you But love hurts the most when the person, you love has
no idea how you feel...

Never Say if u cant do...

Never say "i Love u" if u really dont mean it




Never talk abt feelings if really there arent there

Never Hold my han if u will only break my heart

Never look at myt eye if u only say is lie

Never say hello if u plan to say goodbye

Never Say if u cant do!!!

i m SAD

i m SADi m SADi m SADi m SADi m SADi m SADi m SADi m SADi m SADi m SADi m SADi m SADi m SADi m SADi m SADi m SADi m SADi m SADi m SADi m SADi m SADi m SADi m SADi m SADi m SADi m SADi m SADi m SADi m SADi m SADi m SADi m SADi m SADi m SADi m SADi m SADi m SADi m SADi m SADi m SADi m SADi m SADi m SADi m SADi m SADi m SADi m SADi m SADi m SADi m SADi m SADi m SADi m SADi m SADi m SADi m SADi m SADi m SADi m SADi m SADi m SADi m SADi m SADi m SADi m SADi m SADi m SADi m SADi m SADi m SADi m SADi m SADi m SADi m SADi m SADi m SADi m SADi m SADi m SADi m SADi m SADi m SADi m SADi m SADi m SADi m SADi m SADi m SADi m SADi m SADi m SADi m SADi m SADi m SADi m SADi m SADi m SADi m SADi m SADi m SADi m SADi m SADi m SADi m SADi m SADi m SADi m SADi m SADi m SADi m SADi m SADi m SADi m SADi m SADi m SADi m SADi m SADi m SADi m SADi m SADi m SADi m SADi m SADi m SADi m SADi m SADi m SADi m SADi m SADi m SADi m SADi m SADi m SADi m SADi m SADi m SADi m SADi

I m Allright

Gusys thanks for ur messages, calls and emails... jst needed some time for myself... ll bck soon... as promised ll chat with u all daily... i m fine... my mob will b switched off... and ll share my new contact no nxt month...

Keep mailing :)

♥ ♫ ♥ ♫...This is Me...Why did you not Love Me...???..♫ ♥ ♫ ♥

I had watched you smile,and cuddle with me,

you had held me close, purged the sorrow in me.

I had seen you cry,taken your tears away with me,

you had made me a child,disinterred the innocence in me.

Bad times had come and you saw other sides of me,

You liked some,and prayed for some to leave me

There you were, by the side of me,

changing so many things in me.

Who you were,never concerned me,

but you seemed unhappy,with what is me.

This is me,I said,the real me

the one I always want to be,every part of me.

I would never let you get hurt because of me,

I could never live with that agony.

But you walked away leaving me,

for you did not like being without changing me.

I always thought you had said you loved me,

then why was it that you tried changing me.

I thought you would understand by changing me,

You would not have the one who loved you,the real me.

Why could you not love the bad in me ?

when you fell head over heels for the good in me ?

My tears have dried,alone lies the real me,

You knew I had tried,why didn't you try to stay with me ?

This is me...

This is who I will always be...

That was you...

That is who I always wanted you not to be...

But I always wanted YOU to be with ME !!!

I hate luv stories...

Kuch khwab dekhe hain, kuch rang soche hain
ab maine kal apne tere sang soche hain
Is raah mein jab bhi, tu saath hoti hai
Kisson ke panno si har baat hoti hai
Rooh jo hui meri fida, toh pal mein uthi koi sada
Ke dil se hua judaa judaa, toota main iss tarah
Sadka kiya yoon ishq ka, ke sar jhuka jahan, deedar hua
Sadka kiya yoon ishq ka, ke sar jhuka jahan, deedar hua

Tere mudne se suraj mud gaya
Teri roshni ke saaye mein main dhoop si khili
Mera aasman bhi chhota padh gaya
Mujhe jab se hai baahon mein teri panaah mili
Woh thehri teri adaa adaa, ke ruk bhi gaya mera khuda
Toh mujhpe yeh asar hua, toota main iss tarah
Sadka kiya yoon ishq ka, ke sar jhuka jahan, deedar hua
Sadka kiya yoon ishq ka, ke sar jhuka jahan, deedar hua

(kuch khwab dekhe hai, kuch rang soche hain, ab maine kal apne… )

Teri khushbu mein bheege khat mile
Tere rang ki syahi se likhe padhe sune
Teri baaton ke wo saare silsile
Mere dil ki kahani si suni kahin bune
Main kar na sakun bayaan bayaan, ke chup si hui meri zubaan
Yeh dil mehmaan hua hua, toota main iss tarah
Sadka kiya yoon ishq ka, ke sar jhuka jahaan, deedar hua
Sadka kiya yoon ishq ka, ke sar jhuka jahaan, deedar hua

Kuch khwab dekhe hai, kuch rang soche hain
Ab maine kal apne tere sang soche hain
Iss raah mein jab bhi, tu saath hoti hai
Kisson ke panno si har baat hoti hai
Rooh jo hui mein fida, toh pal mein uthi koi sada
Ke dil se hua judaa judaa, toota main iss tara
Sadka kiya yoon ishq ka, ke sar jhuka jaha, deedar hua
Sadka kiya yoon ishq ka, ke sar jhuka jaha, deedar hua

Real frnds ll b with u when actually u need them... Better to filter the rest junk.

i hav seen a lot... hav lots of frnds... hav frnds who say they can do anything for me... few or jst one, i felt was everything and know frnd ll b with me at all time or atleast wont desert me when reqd... all of the above were jst the speakers and ppl who look for gains... recent incident shocked me frnds who i thou r with me deserted me b'coz they might not find any gains now i guess or jst wanna b away frm my trouble...frnds who were playing sweet before me were nt seen when reqd... frnds whom i trusted a lot and know they ll b with me jst ignore me now...

Now i felt they only used me for their gains if i m not useful to them they jst ignore... or can say cant take lil effort to atleast call me or jst come out of their comfort zone to b with me for a while...

Now i know who r my real frnds and who were jst using me for their gains... i lost my bro... now atleast found my real frnds who ll b with me whatever hpns...

love is like a stapler..:( Its easy to attach but hard to detach...The worst thing is when you are able to detach it,it still leaves the paper damaged...

Please dont make me a loser...

My Brother's Death Changed My Family n ME

Mutual Break would be very respectful.

I requested u... begged u... fall to ur feet jst to save our relationship... u didnt bother to even to look at me... u didnt bother to atleast think abt me... or even listerned to me... atlast i askd u only 3 months for u to rethink to end our lovely relationship into mutual break with respect... u still didnt even bother to that... dont undustand what kind of human u r who dont undustand how to maturily part away and to respect the relation we had for the past few years...

will post rest of this post later...

Story told by my friend to motivate me... :(

The woods were lovely, darkand deep. Walking slowly with her, on the damp road, was her husband she barely knew. He seemed relaxed. Her "mehandi" was still dark and fresh... the excitement and tension from just 2 days back.
"It can't work... please stop this", she kept telling her mom till the last moment, who wouldn't listen but carry on with beautifying her. She cried all night and her make-up had been patched thrice to hide an awkwardly swollen face.
It was too late. She had to marry a guy she had seen once and talked thrice.. a guy she barely knew... can anyone send their daughter such a long distance with a stranger???She was not with friends or her team, not even with parents. This was not a 3 day tour or team building trip. This was her life... a forced start with a stranger. The Loneliness and discomfort was sickening... She looked on... Does he even realize that he has married me? Does he understand that he has to love, protect & care for me, a new girl, a stranger.. all his life?
For the first time in life she regretted not loving and marrying someone she would be comfortable with, someone she could call by name and introduce to friends, someone she could trust, a friend first and then everything else.
Her parents had tried very hard to please her. The concatenation of Horoscopes, family, looks, Good pay, same caste & so on... that always gave 0 output.
Now after all that hunt of 8 months, they were not ready to hear her"ifs" & "buts" for this'good guy'.
She explained to her Dad. She had no feelings for the guy. Her father insisted they meet.. It started like an induction program, self intro and ended like a 3 hour seminar. She was waiting to get away.
The wedding... excited people, silk/flowers/jewelery.. the sacred thread was tied & there was an unexplainable vacuum in her heart.. over.. She was his wife. Accepted by the society and law. What about her acceptance??. This entire crowd will fade away, leaving her to explore her new world...
He pulled her hand gently to sit. The bench was wet and the chill was enjoyable. "So what are you thinking about?"... That was unexpected. Should she reply or be silent? She remembered a two hour presentation she made last month. Bold and confident, she had answered all the queries with a smile. Now she was silent. "Do you know honey... I was not for this marriage too... "Oh my God... what did I hear??? Did HE say that or did I think aloud? What does he mean?Didn’t he like me? Was he forced into this? He must have noticed the quizzical look on my face... with a gentle smile he continued... "I wanted to look for a girl myself, show her how much i care, talk, laugh and cry with her, then get married... Anything else would be a Traditional drama and I was not for it. But my love for my work, my past experiences and also my stress would not give me time and mind space to search for that girl... When your parents talked to me 2 weeks before our marriage, about your fear of getting married, to a stranger, I could completely understand you. I could see myself in you and that was the moment I decided I will marry you. There was no time to prove myself to you... make you trust me… everything happened in a hurry. But there is the entire life before me, to please you, to love you, to make you trust me. This is no less than what I had dreamt of, the girl I was waiting for, is you. Now tell me... will you love me???"
Tears came down her cheek. His question remained unanswered yet both knew the answer....

u r very smart...

u r trying to b over smart...

trying to b nice to me donno y... u hav big plans around jst using me to get ur plans on right track... calling ur parents was also a part of ur plan jst to introduce ur new affair to make it legal... i can undustand u more now... i can see ur dark side better now... u played with all now u r playing ur game even with ur parents... i was the only one waiting for ur B'day to come and celebrate to the fullest... but hav something else in ur mind... u jst want to b gud to me jst to help u in ur plans...

i donn wanna b a backup plan for u... but yaa u r very smart to keep many options and choose the one u r profitable... u r gud in busines not even worth for a relation...

u r very smart... u r over smart...

I like this poem by Kahlil Gibran on 'marriage'...

I like this poem by Kahlil Gibran on 'marriage'.. 

You were born together, and together you shall be forevermore. 
You shall be together when the white wings of death scatter your days. 
Ay, you shall be together even in the silent memory of God. 
But let there be spaces in your togetherness, 
And let the winds of the heavens dance between you. 

Love one another, but make not a bond of love:
Let it rather be a moving sea between the shores of your souls. 
Fill each other's cup but drink not from one cup. 
Give one another of your bread but eat not from the same loaf. 
Sing and dance together and be joyous, but let each one of you be alone, 
Even as the strings of a lute are alone though they quiver with the same music. 

Give your hearts, but not into each other's keeping, 
For only the hand of Life can contain your hearts. 
And stand together yet not too near together, 
For the pillars of the temple stand apart, 
And the oak tree and the cypress grow not in each other's shadow. 

Pain

U broke my trust my LOVE...

u slipped around... u played ur game... u were never true to me... u always lied... This broken heart beats only for one while yours was divided by two and new... i ve never known a broken heart or what shame was all about until u broke the trust that i filled my life with doubt... i m broken... lonesome...with shattered dreams... u ve got somebody new to play with.

Hold up my love,main janta hu ki u dont hate me? But all this time i was the only one who gave u so much love...
We were together and happy but now u dont know wht to do... who is playing fool... u loved me was it ugly? was it bad? was i not worth it?


Jab hium pehle baar mile hum bahut aache dost bane. u stole my heart away u were incridible ur love was incredible... wonderful... mean whole world to me... we build same dreams... we worked out to make them true... it was we as one.
Then u began to change u used to make me feel spl... now all u do is make me cry
i gave u my everything my chuhiyaa...my cutu...my doli... but all u gave me was lies...lies...lies...
i always tried to be one for u... its all abt u and not abt me.
when we gt in a fight... i m always the first to say sorry...even it was u who did wrong...


I got played... I got hurt... Something to do with u treating me like dirt
I trusted you... I no longer know why... I've been embarassed... You told some other guy who is my frnd too.


What I said was strictly between us two...
All you can say is sorry... u know not what to say nor do
u've apoligized over and over... Yet it doesn't erase what you did
I am not to be quieted... I am not a kid


I've been hurt... I have cried
Now I'll try to get over it... After all only a small part of me died


When you told me... u read the whole thing
But again that's ok... I always pick myself back up again


I won't go back to you... I won't do that to me
I learned from my mistake... My mistake was trusting, don't you see


I should be done... I should be through
And for some strange reason... I don't know what to do


I won't go back... But I cannnot stay
I really like you... Now I have to choose my way


To trust my heart... In your hands
Let the chip fall where it may... See where it lands


I've been warned... "Don't fall for her"
I reply the same... "Chances are slim"


I guess I was wrong... I've fallen for you
I won't let anything happen... Still don't know what to do


But I will no longer cry... Will no longer hurt
I am a person... n not to be treated like dirt r junk.


I may r may not have you again that's ok
I will find u changed again Who'll love me, one day.


Your loss
Your mistake
No more tears you fake


I won't tell anyone It was you who broke my heart... Once in two for NEW...


I m LOST!!!