Are you a Reason, a Season, or a Lifetime? ? ? ?

People come into your life for a reason, a season, or a lifetime. When you figure out which one it is, you will know what to do for each person. When someone is in your life for a REASON . . . It is usually to meet a need you have expressed. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally, or spiritually. They are there for the reason you need them to be. Then, without any wrongdoing on your part, or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand. Sometimes they die. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done. Your need has been answered, and now it is time to move on. When people come into your life for a SEASON it is because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn. They bring you an experience of peace, or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season. LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons; things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person, and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life. It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant. Thank you for reading this. By doing so you also have become a small part of my life. "Work like you don't need the money. Love like you've never been hurt. Dance like no one is watching."

वो बचपन के दीन.....

वो बचपन के दीन जब याद आते हैं,ये पल ये लम्हे मासूम से हो जाते हैं,
वो हलकी सी तक्रारें ,वो मीठी सी नोंक-झोंक ,
वो रोज नए बहाने बनाना, वो कल के रूठे दोस्तो को मनाना,
वो स्कूल की घंटी ,वो खेल का मैदान,
वो झील के कीनारे आम का बागान,
वो पत्थर उचालकर कच्चे आमों को गीराना,
वो दौड़ की होड़ मे दोस्तो को गीराना -उठाना,
वो सावन के झूले ,वो कोयल की कूक,
वो बारीश की रीम्झीम मे भीगना -भीगाना ,
वो बारीश के पानी से आंगन का भर जाना,
फीर कागज की कस्तीयां बनाकर पानी मे चलाना !
जाने ये अब कहॉ खो गए ,सायद अब ये कीसी ओर के हो गए
वो बचपन के दीन जब याद आते हैं,ये पल ये लम्हे मासूम से हो जाते हैं

:)

Easy is to get a place is someone’s address book.
Difficult is to get a place in someone’s heart.

========and she has captured a place in my heart from the day.....even i cant remember.


Easy is to stumble with a stone.
Difficult is to get up…

========but she is always there to help you to get up

Easy is to promise something to someone.
Difficult is to fulfill that promise…

========but she will keep your promise no matter what

Easy is to say we love.
Difficult is to show it every day…

========i have not seen a more loving or caring person.in short a real sweetheart

Easy is to weep for a lost love.
Difficult is to take care of it so not to lose it.

========i dnt think anyone will ever want to lose her

Easy is keep the friendship with words
Difficult is to keep it with meanings...

========oh yes the most loyal frnd anyone could have.......